Many of my friends know that I like Enrique Iglesias songs. If I say that I am a fan of some one then its Enrique Iglesias because of song selection, voice and commitment to his song. I feel he is involved in his songs very much. And people, don’t think that I am one among those people who are fascinated by English song and culture. Nope... You are wrong in understanding me. Only English songs I prefer to hear is from Enrique and Backstreet Boys. Come on buddy that’s enough. What is that u intend to say. We are bored now!! Sorry guys. I am like this … This post is for all my readers, friends and closest who never tried to know about me but still feel that what’s wrong with this guy :) ?.
Okie ... Dude if u meant to say about u… Why that starting intro about Enrique? Kewl people, relax. Coming to the point!!!!! I love Enrique’s song. Just gave an intro about my favorite singer and my favorite band. I want to refer to a song sung by Backstreet Boys…
I want it that way … You can watch
this video in this link
But we are two worlds apart
Can't reach to your heart
When you say
That I want it that way
It is a general attitude for you to be soft when you meet other people. Let it be your friend or relative or some people who may turn part and parcel of your life. You bend your bones to adjust with their attitude with an intention of making things better. Later on, when he/she is much closer to you, you will feel bored about the relation and will change your affection towards them and problems will creep in to your relation, which will in turn crack the wall and finally a huge destruction. And as a result both of you will go on for a hunt of other relationships or will be in enmity in rest of life.
It’s quiet common for people to make a perception about me when they meet or have a chat with me. I don’t make friends fast, I take time to accept them as my friend and I also feel that it’s important for them to understand me. For me, relationship or friendship is not just a part of time. It’s a part of life. If a person made a mistake of being my friend, I will make sure that I won’t create trouble for them in any means. I give importance to them in all aspects. From the day they meet me, I will give them the clear indication about my character, my way of living and my preferences. Let it be my colleague whom I consider my good friend or other friends whom I consider important in my life.
In my school days I was different. I believe on people very fast and become attached to them
soon. Though the character remains unchanged, I have improved my maturity to decide on people whom I have to depend on and whom not to. I hate those relations who approach people just for the time sake or purpose and finally say good bye when they have accomplished the mission. After months or days research and development they will decide my ways to be untrustworthy, emotional and bad tempered. I know I am all these things. I am hundred percentile emotional. I use to describe myself as 50% senti and 50% mental. I am bad tempered. I don’t go behind favors, so do I expect from others. I don’t prefer people to be given preference ignoring my contribution in their life or work. I am very much self centric, egoistic and rough by nature. But I show this attitude to only those people whom I don’t want to be with. I am bad tempered and emotional. If you remember guys, I was the same when I met you but you never bothered those issues. And when rest of things goes out of your expectation, where in a state that you are not bothered about others feelings and actions you will realize that my character was not up to the mark. There comes the contradiction between boon and curse :). Days back you believed that you are the luckiest to have my friendship and days later you realize that it was a curse. Then you start realizing that other people around you are better than me.
Now I can see that we're falling apart
From the way that it used to be, yeah
No matter the distance
I want you to know
That deep down inside of me...
This article is meant for everyone. It was just nurtured out of self analysis on me. I have seen relationships growing and breaking in front of me. Some days back I was having very good dreams about marriage, till I discussed with few of my friends who face problems on their life after marriage. May be it’s an after effect of today’s growth on economy and fastness of life. Eight out of Ten friends who are married are giving me an input that things will be superb for first one month, and then it’s difficult. Few of my friends found an idea to solve this. One is to marry a girl who is not willing to work. Their analysis was the demand for money will always remain even if you marry a working partner. Some others have an idea of marrying a girl who is not so educated were they can command on them. I was thinking a way where everything could be brought in. I dont want my life to be that of my neighbour. I am not interested to make a person as my partner and then feel worried about it. My life is precious for me and i really dont have to time worry about it as I do feel worried about other unnecessary things. That’s the reason I was analyzing my own life, what went wrong with me, my relationship with my family members and friends.
Every one believes that they are the hero in their life, from a normal person who works as a coolie to the owner of Microsoft. Yes, in one or the other extend they are. Some people might have proved to be a hero with in a group of people and some in his own life. When I am considered as a social element, my family members believe that I am the best among all and they treat me as king. When you feel that your position is unchallenged you will never have problems in life. From all these things, I derive a line of approach which could make you feel better in your life.
Be yourselves when you interact with others. Never raise anyone above the limit where you can’t afford and never lower them were they can’t afford. If you show very loyal and caring to other person, he will expect you to be the same life long. All of a sudden you decide to be independent and started showing your attitude to them, remember that you will be on trouble soon. Decide if you can be a better friend or partner for the other person. All that glitters are not gold. If you feel some of his/ her character is not of your expectation then, stop a while, think and then proceed.
I wish to tell you people. I am like this… I want it that way. I know it’s difficult for you. So be aware of what other person is of and set your boundaries. I am self centric, emotional, possessive, bad tempered and egoistic. If you know my good characters its fine, if not you might not have become my friend yet.
This session of torture is over, make sure you wont read anything of such kind further.
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